Alana Massey studied the . . . ahem . . . approach she takes for Tinder on Medium today. In a nutshell, she doesn't need to put up with crap from jerks--but her way of saying it is better than mine. I hope my daughters read her spot-on analysis, but I'm more than sure they don't want their father to recommend it to them. You should take the 8 minutes you'll need to read it--especially if you're a guy who wants to have sex with women.